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Character is the development of a style of relationships

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Source : Mark Gaffud via Behance
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When I came here as a child, I was... very cheerful. There were a lot of people, there were colors, it was a beautiful event. I think that must have played a role in my escape, because I was talking to everyone, I was looking at the windows, the doors, listening to the adults, and it certainly played a role in my understanding of the situation and in the solution that I was " fortunate enough " to find. People often say to me: "It's all because you had a good character! " We use the word temperament in attachment theories, but it has nothing to do with genetics or innate. Temperament reflects the fact that during early interactions, from the very first months of life, if one is surrounded by a mother, a family or a secure maternal surrogate, that adult passes on something of that security that belongs to him or her. My mother certainly passed on something of that security to me because when I arrived here in the synagogue on that day in January 1944, I was very cheerful.

It is probably this temperament, which is a very early preverbal acquisition, from the very first months of life, perhaps even the last months of pregnancy, that made me succeed, with a fair amount of luck all the same, in resolving this unlikely problem and escaping. Character is about developing a style of relationship. It is a kind of "taste", it is this "taste of the world" that one acquires very early in life. There are people who taste the world in a bitter way, others who taste it in a sweet way, there are happy tasters and sad tasters, welcoming tasters and hostile tasters. And this "taste of the world" explains our smiling or distrustful, intellectual or desperate reactions. This taste of the world is imprinted very early on.

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