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Guilt is the fear of one’s own wretchedness. It has nothing to do with other people.

Guilt is the fear of one’s own wretchedness. It has nothing to do with other people. Guilt is the fear of one’s own wretchedness. It has nothing to do with other people.
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Once justified, I thought the strangling guilt would release me and I could catch my breath.
But vindication has no power over guilt. No amount of anger or rage directed at others can subdue it, because guilt is never about them. Guilt is the fear of one's own wretchedness. It has nothing to do with other people.
I shed my guilt when I accepted my decision on its own terms, without endlessly prosecuting old grievances, without weighing his sins against mine. Without thinking of my father at all. I accepted, finally, that I had made the decision for my own sake. Because of me, not because of him. Because I needed it, not because he deserved it.
It was the only way I could love him.

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