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[reward theory of attraction] People are attracted to those that we find it satisfying and gratifying to be with.

[reward theory of attraction] People are attracted to those that we find it satisfying and gratifying to be with. [reward theory of attraction] People are attracted to those that we find it satisfying and gratifying to be with.
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The reward theory of attraction states that people like those whose behavior is rewarding to them or whom they associate with rewarding events. More clearly stated this means people are attracted to those who in some way make them feel good, or are attracted to those who remind them of people that they enjoy being around.

[...] If a relationship gives us more reward and pleasure than cost and pain, we will like that relationship and wish it to continue. Thus, even after a relationship ends, we may find ourselves drawn to people that remind us of the former person.

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