When a woman cooks, it's not to feed herself, it's to create a love scenario
Many women are torn between these two opposing aspirations: "to make a life" and at the same time "to find a male shoulder to lean on". It's amazing how women like to use this expression. If men knew how much women are interested in their shoulders, they would use them to seduce them, they would have invented the male cleavage. But the virile shoulder has no sexual function, it has rather a tranquilizing virtue, a function of support in everyday life. The strong and reassuring presence of a male shoulder gives meaning to their domestic chores.
When a woman cooks, it is not to feed herself, it is to create a love scenario. A single woman eats quickly by swallowing a yogurt, a cup of café au lait, a piece of fruit or a cookie. When she cooks for someone, the meal becomes a meeting where we exchange feelings and words much more than carbohydrates, fats and proteins. When a man cooks, it is to play, to try a culinary acrobatics that will provoke laughter or exclamations.
The same thing in itself takes on very different meanings depending on gender.
Cooking too is sexualized.
I don't know the question, but sex is definitely the answer.
My love keeps growing more passionate and egoistic, while his is waning and waning, and that's why we're drifting apart."
She went on musing.
"And there's no help for it. He is everything for me, and I want him more and more to give himself up to me entirely. And he wants more and more to get away from me. We walked to meet each other up to the time of our love, and then we have been irresistibly drifting in different directions. And there's no altering that."
A profile, a look, a voice, can capture a heart in no time at all.
I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.