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Winding-up a conversation gracefully is a complicated art

Winding-up a conversation gracefully is a complicated art Winding-up a conversation gracefully is a complicated art
Source: Henri Matisse - Conversation, (1909)
Consider the Lobster: And Other Essays
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...in real life I always seem to have a hard time winding up a conversation or asking somebody to leave, and sometimes the moment becomes so delicate and fraught with social complexity that I'll get overwhelmed trying to sort out all the different possible ways of saying it and all the different implications of each option and will just sort of blank out and do it totally straight -- 'I want to terminate the conversation and not have you be in my apartment anymore' -- which evidently makes me look either as if I'm very rude and abrupt or as if I'm semi-autistic and have no sense of how to wind up a conversation gracefully...I've actually lost friends this way.

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