You don't have to relate to people whose values are opposite to yours
I can't relate to lazy people. We don't speak the same language. I don't understand you. I don't want to understand you.
We do not love people so much for the good they have done us, as for the good we do them.
Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.
It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.